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Within my age group there seems to be an unspoken agreement that Tinder is basically a "fuck app," as a friend recently described it.
Another friend once said "I don't think people really use Tinder like Grindr to just find someone to bang that night, do they? If the connection is there and I'm physically attracted to someone, I don't see a reason to wait to have sex with them. I'm not really into one-night stands and the one guy I met I wasn't into. Woman A: Two of my Tinder dudes turned into multi-month FWB situations with excellent sex and lovely friendship, which was surprisingly wonderful and drama-free.
Woman A: I used it from September 2014 to February 2015 — so five months — but I was a power user!
Woman B: Once or twice a week, depending on whether I'm actively having a conversation with someone or just browsing through. Sometimes it was a more mercenary approach — I wanted to get laid, or I was just restless and wanted to get out of the house. Woman C: Yes, one guy because he was really keen to meet. Our date ended when he took out his phone and showed me a picture of his penis. It was the first date I'd ever been on so I have limited means of comparison, but I think the mistake was that we spoke on Whatsapp (the Tinder UX is too annoying) for six weeks before we met.
Woman C: I spent three weeks on Tinder about a year ago. Woman A: I had just broken up with a long-term boyfriend and I was curious. As I didn't know many people, I thought it would be a good way to make some new friends and get to know the place I was now living in. It seemed easier than dating sites where you have to fill a detailed questionnaire, which I can never be bothered to do.
I'd just had a horrible breakup and Tinder was a very, very effective way to get back out there.
Woman B: I use it for dating and hookups, and I blog about my experiences. We all know someone who knows someone who met her serious boyfriend on Tinder. I never heard back from him after I not-so-gently turned down his advance. Those conversations were pretty good and it seemed we had a lot in common, but what I hadn't accounted for was how different online discussion is from real discussion.
Woman A: As a single girl in New York, there's frankly no more efficient way to get laid than Tinder." and I started laughing because I have absolutely done that. I think the fact that we met on Tinder took some of the pressure off — you can pretty safely assume they aren't looking for anything serious if they slept with you on your first Tinder date. Anyone who is very explicit about sexual preferences — although at the same time I respect that. It's so great for meeting people that you would never have known otherwise.Woman B: I've had a threesome with a couple I met on Tinder. Is their bio witty, and not just about working hard and playing hard? A lot of people fill up their description with things they don't want instead of things they do. For instance, I saw one guy who said he was into BDSM and I think this might be valuable info for someone, just not me. I met a choreographer that just moved here from the Midwest, an Australian lawyer in New York for a month, an Ivy-League dropout who spent half of each month in Paris... In this week's Sex Talk Realness, speaks with three twentysomething women about their (very different) experiences with Tinder. I did make a lot of contacts on it but I eventually left because it was stressing me out. Have you ever met up in person with someone you met on Tinder? I met my first kiss on My Space and met a few boyfriends on Ok Cupid, so the idea of meeting someone off an app wasn't weird to me in the least.Read what MEN really think about using Tinder here. I realized I could spend hours swiping and some of the "DTF" or similar messages I was getting were creeping me out because that's not what I was on it for. Woman A: During that period I used it daily, if not multiple times a day. Woman A: Sometimes it was just a way to amuse myself by playing hot or not, or by trading silly messages with someone I never planned to meet up with. I found it dangerously useful for meeting men who lived in my neighborhood in NYC, which was really convenient when I was single and is annoying now that I see someone I met on Tinder every time I go to brunch. In five months I saved 10 dudes in my phone as "[First Name] Tinder." I maybe met up with eight of them? I like meeting new people and I don't see the point in using the app if you just want to text a stranger! Woman A: I had great luck and met lots of charming, smart, handsome dudes. Woman B: One of my most remarkable dates was with a man who invited me to the food court at his office building for a lunch date, and spent most of the time telling me about how he wanted to buy me beautiful lingerie and watch me try it on.