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Dating someone in that circumstance might not be risky, but love is a risk no matter what.
However, even if you play out many different scenarios in your head, you still will not be fully informed on your situation and how you should proceed.
But often times there’s a grey area where both parties know the relationship has run its course and are ready to move on, but they have to figure out how to divide custody of the kids and shared assets.
This can take months, if not years, with lawyers are the only ones tying the two people together.
A couple of days ago a friend and I were discussing another mutual friend–we’ll call her “Roslyn”–who was going through a divorce.
Although the divorce hadn’t been finalized, her and her no ex-husband went their separate ways nearly two years ago.
This resulted in him moving out and getting his own place, and quickly moving on to a new girlfriend.
Even still, they were in contact as they share custody of their three kids.
One was simply not emotionally ready to move on, while the other informed me after five months of dating that he was going to go back and give it another shot with his wife–only for them to end up divorced anyway. So, until a man was totally free and wasn’t involved with any other women that could claim him as her husband, I stayed away.
Does he seem emotionally available or over her completely?
Like any other matter of the heart, your gut is your best tool to use when trying to decide if dating someone who is separated is worth it.
Assess his situation thoroughly: How long has he been separated? Are there kids involved and/or assets that need to be split?
Now, as a married woman myself, I can say with some degree of certainty that if my husband and I were to divorce, I wouldn’t want to rush right back into another serious relationship. All circumstance are different, so it’s hard to say if a person should date someone who is in the process of a divorce or not.
While most divorces can be sad, nasty and drawn out, others can be quick and painless.